Tips for Writing Your Wedding Vows

If you want your wedding ceremony to represent a loving appeal, it will all begin with writing your wedding vows.


You have been with your partner for most likely many years, and learned everything about what makes them a unique individual. Not only did you learn everything about them, but you have fallen in love with them.

With all of the love you feel for your partner, you will want to express it all within your vows. However, it may become overwhelming to put the words on paper.

Your vows offer you the opportunity to express your love for your partner. That’s why, here at Rose Petal Events, we have gathered some tips to assist you in writing your wedding vows. If you are interested in learning some insight, be sure to continue reading to discover more:

  • Plan with your partner. While you will of course want your wedding vows to be a secret until the ceremony, you can still plan out the basics with your partner. Consider determining a length, so that you both can write the same amount of words to share with one another. This can help to avoid any awkwardness, such as if your vows were very short, while your partner’s may be incredibly long.
  • What to write. Your wedding vows can truly be written however you would like. However, if you are at a loss as to what to write, just think about your partner and the reasons why you love them. What made you fall in love with them, what are your favorite qualities about them, and why do you want to spend the rest of your life with them…these are all aspects that can be expressed throughout your vows.
  • Presenting your vows. While you may have written the perfect wedding vows, and possibly even memorized them. However, it is important to bring them along with you to the ceremony. Sometimes, nerves can kick in, causing your memory to become fuzzy. So, having a backup is certainly ideal. When speaking your vows, just focus on your partner. Look into their eyes, hold their hands, and speak directly to them, as your vows are for them, and not for your guests.

Planning a wedding is certainly a big task! However, these tips will certainly assist you in writing your wedding vows. If you are still on the hunt for a wedding planner in Los Angeles, California, Rose Petal Events is ready to assist you. Contact us today to begin planning your Los Angeles wedding.


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